Radio Commentary
Holiday time can be the most loving and,
at the same time, the most materialistic period that our children go through
each year.
Sometimes it’s good to reinforce
that the most important things in life do not always involve the exchange of
dollars.
It’s so easy for a parent to reach
for some money or a piece of candy as a reward for good grades or extra effort.
But there are much better ways to show
gratitude and pride. The National PTA insists that “hugs, kisses, and
compliments are worth more than anything money can buy.”
In fact, some of the best incentives
don’t cost any money at all, but continue to reap rewards year after year.
You’d be surprised how much more
staying power hugs have, or pats on the back, smiles, or extra attention.
Reading together could be another
reward. It’s a gift that brings you close to your children.
Also, compliments have much more
impact when they are given face to face, or said to others loud enough so that
the child can hear them. It can also be effective to hold family testimonial
dinners for children.
The successes can cover any special
contribution — fixing the DVD player, drawing a comic book, helping someone in
your neighborhood, or meeting a goal.
It’s never too early to underscore
for children that many of the best things in life are not “things” at all, but
attitudes and actions that show kindness, concern, and appreciation.
