Radio Commentary
Children as young as five can start jockeying for
social power, and some can begin to inflict cruelty on other children.
Young
people who are victims of bullies respond in various ways. Some may talk about
the torment they are receiving. Others may just come home and fall apart. They
might cry or throw tantrums for no apparent reason.
If
you know that your child is being bullied, talk to the principal or school
counselor as soon as possible.
Describe in detail what
is happening and how often. Let school officials explain the steps they will
take to keep your child safe.
At
home, help empower your child by letting her know you believe she can handle
social situations.
Help her with the right
words to say, like “You can’t do that to me,” or “You need to stay away from
me.” Practice role-playing to help prepare your child and build his courage.
Bullies
seem less likely to pick on children who have friends, so encourage your
child’s friendships.
Host “play dates” and
help your child find extracurricular activities. Having friends in other
places, outside of school, can build confidence.
A child who feels
successful socially will be able to see that it’s the bully’s problem, not
hers.
In
fact, a child who feels more secure and less vulnerable is less likely to be
picked on, so work hard to reinforce those traits.
