It
may seem obvious, but it is very important to talk with your children — really
talk with them.
In
this fast-paced world, it is easy to fall into conversational patterns like,
“Hi, how are you?” or “How was your day?” But it’s well worth the extra effort
to stay more connected to your family.
One
of the most powerful conversation blockers is television. During meals, make “no
TV” a priority. That way you can have a family conversation when all your
schedules allow everyone to be present.
Children
might complain if they have to miss their favorite shows, but make sure they understand
that keeping up with other people’s lives, feelings, and concerns is important
in every family.
In
fact, mealtime conversation can prove enlightening for all involved. You can
provide direct attention, support, and advice.
Lively
discussions about current events might prevail. Whatever the topic, getting
input from all family members succeeds in bringing you all closer together.
Real interaction helps prevent misconceptions and misunderstandings.
It’s
doubtful that anyone will miss the witty dialogue of a sit-com later in life,
but they may well regret not knowing their children or parents as well as they
could.
Start
when the children are really young and it will be easier. Whatever the ages of
your children, remember that interacting with them is always worth the effort.
