Teenagers need their parents more than
ever.
And though they might protest or seem
uninterested, teens do consider their parent’s opinions and values when making
decisions.
Here are some pointers for maintaining
a good relationship with teens:
First, be actively interested in your
teens’ life. Know who their friends are and make an effort to meet their
parents as well.
Talk WITH your teen, not AT him. Try to
avoid arguments. If things get heated, take a time out from the conversation
and come back to it when you are both calm.
Share your thoughts with your teen.
Teens are old enough to understand what is going on in the world. Talk about
the news.
Take your teen to work so she can see
what the work world is like. Talk to him about what he thinks he might do after
high school. Let your child know your own stressful circumstances. Children see
and hear more than we think.
Make sure to schedule some one-on-one
time with your teen. Everyone has busy schedules, but it’s important to take
advantage of short times available with undivided attention — for
example, when you are both in the car together.
Take a few minutes to sit in his room
when you go in to say goodnight, and talk about things. Family dinners are also a good time to talk,
so try to eat together as often as possible.
Find an activity you can enjoy
together, whether going to the gym or watching the news. It all makes a difference.
