Radio Commentary
There are
actions parents can take to help children develop good decision-making skills.
First, always set firm limits. Children
should know exactly what you expect regarding drug and alcohol use, gang
affiliation, sexual activity, and school attendance.
There must be clear consequences for
breaking those limits, and your enforcement must be consistent.
You
should also be aware of the example you set.
Children
of all ages are aware of your attitudes and habits. They are more likely to
follow your example than your lectures.
The
old adage, “Do as I say, not as I do,” simply doesn’t work with young people.
A
good parent-child relationship is good motivation for your child to follow your
guidelines and standards.
Remember:
You should have high expectations, but influence is not control.
This
means expressing to your child statements such as: “You have everything you need to be
successful” … and … “You can do it!” It does not mean pressuring children to
achieve perfectionist standards.
The road to adulthood is never
straight and smooth, but parents can help their children on that journey with
the right attitude and the right tools.
