Radio Commentary
Study after study shows that students who
have a basic level of self-confidence perform better in the classroom.
They are more willing to take part in
discussions and offer opinions. They are less hesitant to ask for help when
they need it.
These are all important to school
success.
Here are some self-esteem building tips
for parents to help cultivate those traits in their children.
The
suggestions all involve “accentuating the positive.”
•
Give plenty of love and hugs. Children thrive on it.
The
opposite is also true: Never physically or mentally hurt your child. The wounds
go deeper than you think and are longer lasting than they seem.
•
If both parents work, arrange the best child care possible. If your child is
alone, provide safety and activity rules that are to be followed without fail.
Whenever possible, avoid changing childcare arrangements.
• Be a confident role model. Children
need parents to set the pace. Shore up your own self-esteem — but avoid having your
children feel that they could never rise to your lofty level.
•
Place a value on education by providing quiet time for homework, and help out
if necessary. Talk about school, and show support by keeping your school
appointments and attending school events.
All
these actions help children feel good about who they are and what they do.
