Several types of activities can
help create and maintain connections with your children as they get older.
Share a hobby. Explore an
interest that you both enjoy, whether it’s rollerblading, playing golf, or skimming
through fashion magazines or websites. Time spent this way can result in hours
of naturally-flowing conversation.
Look at baby pictures. A walk
down memory lane is a great way to bring up other awkward topics including the
many physical and emotional changes that occur throughout your child’s life.
Make time in the car for
conversation. The moments you have together in the car can help you share
important information and emotions.
You can also learn a lot about
your child if you pay attention to conversations with friends while they’re
riding in the back seat.
See your child as others do.
Many parents only see their children when they’re at home. Get involved with
your child’s school or summer program. Volunteer to help with extracurricular
programs, such as theatre, clubs, or sports.
You may discover new and
wonderful aspects to your child that you otherwise would have missed.
All these activities help you
create and maintain connections as your children travel into adulthood. They
also form the basis of shared experiences and close relationships throughout a
lifetime.
