Radio Commentary
There will come a time when you and
your child have different opinions. It’s inevitable.
Accept this fact and understand
that depending on a child’s age, personality traits, or peer influences, they
may see things from a different perspective.
Accept these differences of opinion
and use the opportunity to discuss the topic in question.
Encourage independent thinking and
listening to others. Getting to know people better and understanding the
perspectives of others are vital to future emotional and psychological
well-being.
It’s also very healthy and
affirming for children to hear you say these words when appropriate: “You’re
right – I hadn’t thought about it that way.”
When they grasp the idea that we
can always learn something new and see something from another point of view,
they are more likely to keep open minds as they engage in a spirited defense of
their beliefs.
Help them flesh out their arguments
and approach issues from different sides. Show them that everyone is entitled
to an opinion but that not all opinions are equally valid, especially if they
are based on emotion or misconceptions, rather than fact.
A thoughtful debate is often very
thought-provoking. Helping your children become articulate, thoughtful, and
respectful will help them at all stages of their lives.
