Several
types of activities can help create and maintain connections with your children
as they get older.
Share
a hobby. Explore an interest that you both enjoy, whether it’s rollerblading,
playing golf, or skimming through fashion magazines or websites. Time spent
this way can result in hours of naturally-flowing conversation.
Look
at baby pictures. A walk down memory lane is a great way to bring up other
awkward topics including the many physical and emotional changes that occur
throughout your child’s life.
Make
time in the car for conversation. The moments you have together in the car can
help you share important information and emotions.
You
can also learn a lot about your child if you pay attention to conversations
with friends while they’re riding in the back seat.
See
your child as others do. Many parents only see their children when they’re at
home. Get involved with your child’s school. Volunteer to help with
extracurricular programs, such as theatre, clubs, or sports.
You
may discover new and wonderful aspects to your child that you otherwise would
have missed.
All
these activities help you create and maintain connections as your children
travel into adulthood. They also form the basis of shared experiences and close
relationships throughout a lifetime.
