Study
after study shows that students who have a basic level of self-confidence
perform better in the classroom.
They
are more willing to take part in discussions and offer opinions. They are less
hesitant to ask for help when they need it.
These
are all important to school success.
Here
are some self-esteem building tips for parents to help cultivate those traits
in their children.
The
suggestions all involve “accentuating the positive.”
•
Give plenty of love and hugs. Children thrive on it.
The
opposite is also true: Never physically or mentally hurt your child. The wounds
go deeper than you think and are longer lasting than they seem.
•
If both parents work, arrange the best child care possible. If your child is
alone, provide safety and activity rules that are to be followed without fail.
Whenever possible, avoid changing childcare arrangements.
•
Be a confident role model. Children need parents to set the pace. Shore up your
own self-esteem — but avoid having your children feel that they could never
rise to your lofty level.
•
Place a value on education by providing quiet time for homework, and help out when
necessary. Talk about school, and show support by keeping your school
appointments and by attending school events.
All
these activities help children feel good about who they are and what they do.
