Listening is a critical skill
for success. It is often in short supply, which makes it all the more valuable.
In fact, becoming a better
listener is beneficial to anyone who wants to communicate effectively.
Listening well helps build
stronger relationships, and is useful in resolving disputes. Most importantly,
listening is the key to acquiring knowledge.
Here are six steps that can
help anyone become a more skilled listener and climb the ladder of success. The
six steps spell out
L-A-D-D-E-R.
For “L”: Look at the person you
are speaking to.
For “A”: Ask questions to make
sure you understand.
For “D”: Don’t interrupt.
For the next “D”: Don’t change
the subject.
For “E”: Empathize with the
speaker. Try to feel what they are feeling.
For “R”: Respond verbally and
nonverbally, with nods, smiles, and spoken responses.
Going through these steps can
help anyone become a better listener, and for students this is an especially
helpful tool.
