Wednesday, August 22, 2012

Parent participation in middle school

Radio Commentary


The rate of parental involvement at school often declines when children enter the middle grades. But it doesn’t have to, according to Mary Simon, author of How to Parent Your Teenager.
Here are some ways parents can participate after their children leave the elementary school ranks:
•  Serve as a volunteer in the school office, library, hallways, or cafeteria.
•  Listen to students read.
•  Be a tutor.
•  Share your hobbies, culture, or special skills with students.
•  Help with clubs and activities. Organize and distribute sports uniforms, time debates, teach students how to play chess.
•  Chaperon field trips and dances.
•  Contact sources of funding for special projects.
•  Support your school’s fundraising efforts.
•  Serve on school committees.
•  Lead or support PTA efforts. 
Simon says her own involvement enriched her understanding of her son’s life in junior high.
What makes participation more difficult at these levels is the fact that students often feel more independent and sometimes act as though they don’t want their parents involved.
Don’t fall for it!  Deep down, young people are really pleased that their parents still care enough to participate. 
And it’s a good way to stay in tune with what’s going on.