Radio Commentary
Many people believe that modern-day children do not have
good manners and often display rude behavior.
That may be
a bad “rap” for the younger generation as a whole. Clearly, there are examples
at both extremes of the spectrum when it comes to displaying good manners for
every age group.
The fact
remains that good manners must be taught; they do not come naturally. In fact,
bad manners are usually natural, selfish impulses that children are sometimes
allowed to have.
Curbing poor
manners and developing good ones requires placing real limits on the child. A
caring adult may have a tug of war with a child to bring about change and alter
the habit of a me-first attitude.
It involves
taking away ordinary privileges, and saying “no” a lot. Sometimes that’s harder
for the parent than for the child.
Remember
that good manners are not just about rules. It’s also about showing children
how to be gracious and respectful.
Simple
words like “please,” “thank you,” “I’m sorry,” and “excuse me,” go a long way
as well.
Teaching
manners may start out with a negative approach of restrictions and
consequences. But the outcome is always a form of civility, respect, and love.
