Radio Commentary
Holiday time can
be the most loving and, at the same time, the most materialistic period that
our children go through each year.
Sometimes it’s
good to reinforce that the most important things in life do not always involve
the exchange of dollars.
It’s so easy for
a parent to reach for some money or a piece of candy as a reward for good
grades or extra effort.
But there are
much better ways to show gratitude and pride. The National PTA insists, “hugs,
kisses, and compliments are worth more than anything money can buy.”
In fact, some of
the best incentives don’t cost any money at all, but continue to reap rewards
year after year.
You’d be
surprised how much more staying power hugs have, or pats on the back, smiles,
or extra attention.
Reading together
could be another reward. It’s a gift that brings you close to your children.
Also,
compliments have much more impact when they are given face to face, or said to
others loud enough so that the child can hear them. It can also be effective to
hold family testimonial dinners for children.
The successes
can cover any special contribution — fixing the DVD player, drawing a comic
book, helping someone in your neighborhood, or meeting a goal.
It’s never too
early to underscore for children that many of the best things in life are not
“things” at all, but attitudes and actions that show kindness, concern, and
appreciation.
