Radio Commentary
Understanding others begins with
empathy. It is the act of putting yourself into another’s shoes.
Often teenagers can have difficulty
in this area because their own problems seem to loom so large in their minds.
It is a period of time when it is hardest to feel the emotional plight of
others.
To help develop empathy, it is
important to be a really good listener. When your children are speaking to you,
regardless of the topic at hand, always listen to them with respect.
React to your teenager as you would
to an adult friend. Make a real effort to listen as much as you talk.
When you have information to convey
on an important topic, speak for half a minute or so, and then stop and let
your child have a chance to react.
Accept the fact that some teens can
at times be complainers. Let them air their grievances fully and completely.
Try not to interrupt while they are sharing their feelings.
Most importantly, take time to have
relaxed conversations alone with each of your children on a regular basis.
Frequent talks will help you spot difficulties before they become real
problems.
It’s important that all involved be encouraged to talk AND to listen.
