Research
shows that one in four young people lives in a family where a person abuses
alcohol or suffers from alcoholism.
Children
in these situations need to know they are not alone. Addiction to alcohol or
drugs is a disease. When one member of the family has this disease, all family
members are affected.
Children
need to know it is not their fault. They didn’t cause the disease and they
can’t make it stop. They need and deserve help for themselves.
It
is critical to know that young people with addicted parents are four times more
likely to become addicted if they choose to drink alcohol or use illegal drugs.
They
need to keep firmly in mind that they can’t get addicted if they don’t drink or
use drugs.
Children
in these situations should talk with an adult — a teacher, school counselor, or
school nurse, a friend’s parent, a doctor, grandparent, or neighbor — anyone
who will listen and help them.
They
can also ask a school counselor or social worker to recommend a support
group.
These
are great places to meet other young people struggling with the same problems
at home.
Children
should know it is important to find caring adults who can provide the guidance
and support they need to stay healthy.
They
will feel better and can have a safe and productive life. It’s in their power
if they understand these facts and act.
