KTMS Radio Commentary
We have made many strides in the
area of tolerance and consideration for others, both in our communities and in
our schoolyards.
But human nature and normal child
development dictate that despite our best efforts, there will still be bullies
and victims.
The world is full of them. Our
schoolyards are no exception. That’s why teaching children to deal with
bullying individuals is an important life lesson.
The best way to safeguard your children from
becoming a victim of a schoolyard bully is to teach them how to be assertive.
Encourage children to express their
feelings clearly and to say no when they feel pressured or uncomfortable in a
situation.
Show them how to stand up for
themselves verbally without fighting. And make sure they know to walk away in
dangerous situations. Bullies are less likely to intimidate children who are
confident and resourceful.
Here are
some good ideas for parents:
•
Teach your children early on to recognize — and then steer clear of —
children who are bullies.
•
Teach them to be assertive rather than aggressive or violent when
confronted by a bully. They should say ‘no’ or state how they feel as a simple
fact, with no ‘attitude’ attached.
•
Make sure they know not to threaten in any way. And make especially sure
they know how to walk away without hesitation when it seems that real danger
might be present.
