KTMS Radio Commentary
It
may seem obvious, but it is very important to talk with your children — really
talk with them.
In this fast-paced world it’s easy to fall into
conversational patterns like, “Hi, how are you?” or “How was your day?” But
it’s well worth the effort to stay more connected to your family.
One
of the most powerful conversation blockers is television. During meals, make no-TV
a priority. That way you can get together and have a family conversation when
all your schedules connect.
There might be complaining if favorite shows have to be
missed, but make sure children know that keeping up with other people’s lives,
feelings, and concerns is important in every family.
In fact, mealtime conversation can prove enlightening for
all involved. You can provide direct attention, support, and advice.
Lively discussions can prevail about current events.
Whatever the topic, getting input from family members succeeds in bringing you
all closer together. Real interaction helps prevent misconceptions and
misunderstandings.
It’s doubtful that anyone will miss the witty dialogue of
a sit-com later in life, but they may well regret not knowing their children or
parents as well as they could.
Start when
the children are really young and it will be easier. Whatever the ages of your
children, remember that interacting with them is always worth the effort.
