KTMS Radio Commentary
Punishment is a negative
consequence of bad behavior that has already occurred. Discipline is a positive way to focus future
behavior.
Here are some rules for loving
discipline that have helped many parents.
1. Change misbehavior by setting positive goals to
strive for, rather than negative ones to avoid.
2. Say what you mean and mean what you say. Children have an uncanny way
of knowing the difference.
3. Involve your youngsters in solving problems. This will show them you
value their judgment.
4. Talk less; do more.
5. Ask what happened to cause a certain
misbehavior; don’t tell your child what you think happened. Listen carefully.
The cause may surprise you.
6.Make clear what you want and praise children
when they do it.
7. Impose logical consequences for any
misbehavior.
8.Give your children choices — but make sure you
can live with them. If not, discuss the issue and explain why another choice
might be better.
9.Focus on what’s good about your children, and
expect their very best.
Always show your love.
