Decision-making
and problem solving are important skills to teach your child.
Talk
with children about challenges they encounter. Helping them create a list of
possible responses to a variety of situations can be a great learning tool.
Set
up “what if” scenarios when children tell you how they might handle or deal
with certain situations or problems. Brainstorm strategies and options as you
show them how to take steps to tackle a situation.
It
will allow them to feel confident about solving a problem or making a difficult
decision.
Be
sure to follow through when you are confronted with a problem and show your children
the approach you use. Tell them about the tough decisions you have to make.
Realizing
that everyone faces similar experiences makes children feel less frightened and
helps them become better prepared.
When
you’ve handled something you never thought you could, you really feel stronger
and more self-confident. This is what really builds self-esteem.
Young
people who experience these feelings are much more willing to face new
challenges with confidence.
Remember:
Don’t just handle problems for your children or make their decisions for them.
Teach
them the decision-making skills they’ll need to solve problems on their own. This
is an important skill that will last a lifetime.
